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A heartfelt and witty debut about feeling different and finding acceptance--beyond the rules.

Twelve-year-old Catherine just wants a normal life. Which is near impossible when you have a brother with autism and a family that revolves around his disability. She's spent years trying to teach David the rules-from "a peach is not a funny-looking apple" to "keep your pants on in public"-in order to stop his embarrassing behaviors. But the summer Catherine meets Jason, a paraplegic boy, and Kristi, the next-door friend she's always wished for, it's her own shocking behavior that turns everything upside down and forces her to ask: What is normal?
Paperback, 224 pages
Published on September 1, 2008 by Scholastic Paperbacks
ISBN-10: 0439443830
ISBN-13: 9780439443838
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  • turtlecake2610
    turtlecake2610Sunday, March 19, 2017 at 6:04 pm
    I love this book! I read it for book clubs in my class, and it Rules! See what I did there?
    • parikhgr8
      parikhgr8Monday, February 13, 2017 at 6:40 pm55 stars
      Rules was a magnificent book. It showed that even if you have to deal with someone that really annoys, which in this case would be David, you can come out of that and be happy.
      • parikhgr8
        parikhgr8Monday, February 13, 2017 at 6:41 pm55 stars
        Awesome job, dude!
      • leylush
        leylushTuesday, January 3, 2017 at 10:47 am55 stars
        I decided to read this book because the back of he book interested me ,but if you look at the front it does really look interesting .And then I started reading, it was about a girl ,whose name was Catherine.Catherine had a brother with autism ,which a sickness when a person doesn't communicate with other people .So she decides to make rules for her brother.As you can see I recommend this book to you .So read rules and enjoy!
        • sunshine246
          sunshine246Thursday, December 8, 2016 at 7:42 am
          This was a really good book. It mixed sad, happy, and funny really well. The style kept you interested the whole time!
          • ganfer1617
            ganfer1617Wednesday, December 7, 2016 at 6:54 amFeatured
            Do you know what it is like to have a brother with autism? Well in the book rules you will know.In The book Rules by Cynthia Lord there is a girl named Catherine and she has a younger brother with autism his name is David. The book takes place at their house and OT which is speech therapy for David. In this book the protagonist is Catherine because she is loving and caring for her brother. The antagonist is David autism because its makes it so Catherine has to watch over him all the time. She can’t have friends over because she is sacred that he is going to do something embarrassing. The first conflict in the book is when Catherine gets a new neighbor and she wants to come over to her house all the time but Catherine is scared that David is going to do something bad. The second conflict in the book is when her friend Jason that she meet at David's therapy class invites her to his birthday part but the girl next door wants her to got to a dance that she is going on the same day so she doesn't know what to do. But at the end of the book she starts realizing that it is not David's fault. Catherine writes speech cards for Jason and also wrote rules for Divided. I would recommend this book to someone that is 6th or 7th grade that want a quick and easy book to read.
            • memoiloveit
              memoiloveitMonday, May 30, 2016 at 5:44 pm
              I rate this book as fair since I appreciate how the author made each chapter named after a rule that the protagonist, Catherine, wants her autistic younger brother, David, to follow. Three examples are no toys in the fish tank, chew with your mouth closed, and say “thank you” when someone gives you a present even if you don’t like it. I also appreciate that even though Catherine helps David frequently and cares for him by babysitting him, she also takes care of herself. One of Catherine’s rules for herself are: pantless brothers are not my problem. When Catherine’s not babysitting, she’s allowed to live a normal life and hang out with her friends more, since her family always revolves around his disability. I don’t appreciate that Catherine addresses Kristi, her new next-door neighbor, as a friend, since Kristi doesn’t treat her as a friend. When Catherine goes to a dance with her new friend, Jason, who she met at David’s occupational therapy clinic center, she sees Kristi and her friend Ryan. Kristi didn’t know that Jason can’t talk since Catherine didn’t tell her, so Kristi just leaves Catherine. On page 196, Catherine apologizes, “I’m sorry...I should’ve told you the truth.” Without looking at her, Kristi flatly replies, “Yeah...You should’ve. I’ll see you around.” I also don’t appreciate that Catherine wishes that David could just be normal, since he can’t help it. I think that she should be kinder about it. When Catherine was in third grade, her class did a project called the “My Family” picture. Catherine drew her family, but with a normal brother, instead of David. The teacher made her draw the picture over and visit the guidance counselor. Page 140 says, “I tried to tell her it was still David...but wanted him to be able to play with me, and since I was fixing things, I made him older so he could stick up for me.”
              • charlesh20
                charlesh20Wednesday, February 24, 2016 at 6:33 am44 stars
                The book Rules by Cynthia Lord is a fantastic book, the main character Catherine is born with a autism brother, she have to take some part of responsibility on his brother. Catherine's parts of daily life is to teach her brother David some daily rules such as keep your pants on in public"-in order to stop his embarrassing behavior. Or being behave in the public, no scramming. While in summer Catherine have to do her best to keep David out of trouble. In the summer also a guy named Jason moved in to the next door. With Catherine, she makes Jason a friend very fast and found out that Jason is doing occupational therapy. Another named Kristi. Catherine continues friendships with both Jason and Kristi. Kristi is interested in the local boy. Catherine is getting closer to Jason and Jason even invite Catherine to his B-day party. Well, Happy ending, Catherine learned how to be balance for caring David and establishing her own identity. This book at somehow makes me cry a little bit because of the sense is too emotional. I would grade this book for 4 start because I think this book really tells me a emotional story with lessons. I would suggest this book for the people who is aged around 9-15 years old to read this book because this book is very suitable for the ones who is teens and get annoyed by siblings.
                • pankake334Friday, January 8, 2016 at 2:43 pm
                  this book is very touching
                  • siri
                    siriFriday, January 8, 2016 at 2:32 pm44 stars
                    It's a really good book that can be realistic. such a nice story
                    • sanj75
                      sanj75Friday, January 8, 2016 at 2:21 pmFeatured
                      It's a book that's impossible not to like. It's about a girl, Catherine, who has a brother, David, who has autism and how she just doesn't understand how his mind works. Since he tends to have a mind of his own, she writes down rules for him to follow. David loves rules. It's a fun book and great for readers who love a good novel.

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